“The Last Teardrop” tells the incredible true story of singer Bobby Wilson, his journey through the foster care system, and a stunning discovery that changes his life forever.


This powerful film not only sheds light on the complexities of foster care and adoption in America but also features a familiar face from our very own community: Tammy Holcombe, the Executive Director of My Florida Adoptions.

In the world of music, there are stories of talent, passion, and perseverance. But every so often, a story emerges that transcends the stage, touching upon the very essence of human connection, identity, and the search for belonging. “The Last Teardrop” is one such story. The film, which has been garnering accolades such as “mind-blowing” from Indie Cinema Showcase and “gripping” from ScreenHub, follows the life of Bobby Wilson, an entertainer who has captivated audiences with his tribute to the legendary Jackie Wilson. But as Bobby delves deeper into his own past, he uncovers a secret that connects him to the music icon in a way he never could have imagined.


This is more than just a music documentary. It’s a poignant exploration of the American foster care system, a testament to the resilience of the human spirit, and a celebration of the healing power of adoption. And for us at
My Florida Adoptions, it’s a story that resonates deeply with our mission and the work we do every day.


The Story of Bobby Wilson: A Journey of Discovery

Bobby Wilson’s life has been anything but ordinary. Born into foster care, he navigated a childhood marked by trauma and uncertainty. Yet, through it all, he found solace and a sense of purpose in music. His incredible talent and stage presence led him to create a renowned tribute act honoring the one and only Jackie Wilson, a pioneer of soul music. But what Bobby didn't know was that his connection to Jackie Wilson was more than just musical admiration—it was a matter of blood.


“The Last Teardrop” documents Bobby’s emotional journey as he uncovers the truth about his parentage: Jackie Wilson was his biological father. This revelation sends shockwaves through his life, forcing him to confront his past, his identity, and the very definition of family. The film masterfully weaves together Bobby’s personal narrative with rare archival footage of Jackie Wilson, creating a compelling and unforgettable story of two men, one unbelievable story.


A Spotlight on Foster Care and Adoption

Beyond the captivating personal story of Bobby Wilson, “The Last Teardrop” serves as a powerful platform to raise awareness about the foster care and adoption systems in the United States. The film features interviews with leading experts in the field, including Dr. John DeGarmo of The Foster Care Institute, who provides invaluable insights into the challenges and triumphs of the foster care journey. Dr. DeGarmo, who, along with his wife, has fostered over 60 children, brings a wealth of knowledge and compassion to the film, highlighting the urgent need for loving and supportive homes for children in care.


This is where the story hits close to home. We are thrilled to share that Tammy Holcombe, the esteemed Executive Director of
My Florida Adoptions, was in attendance at the premiere of “The Last Teardrop.” Her presence at this important event underscores our agency’s commitment to supporting films and initiatives that bring much-needed attention to the world of adoption. Tammy, who has dedicated over 30 years of her life to the field of adoption, was seen at the premiere with Dr. DeGarmo, a testament to the collaborative spirit of the adoption community.


My Florida Adoptions: A Beacon of Hope for Families

At My Florida Adoptions, we believe that every child deserves a loving and permanent family. We are a full-service, private adoption agency with a team of caring and experienced professionals who are dedicated to guiding both birth parents and adoptive parents through the adoption process. With offices in Clearwater, Tampa, Orlando, and New Port Richey, we are proud to serve families throughout the state of Florida.


Our services are designed to provide comprehensive support to everyone involved in the adoption journey. We offer a wide range of resources for
adoptive parents, from initial consultations to post-adoption support. We also provide compassionate and non-judgmental counseling for birth parents who are considering adoption, ensuring that they have the information and support they need to make the best decision for themselves and their child.


The Importance of Adoption: A Lifeline for Children

Stories like Bobby Wilson’s are a powerful reminder of the transformative power of adoption. For children in the foster care system, adoption can be a lifeline, providing them with the stability, love, and support they need to thrive. In Florida alone, there are thousands of children waiting for their forever families. According to the Florida Department of Children and Families, in 2022, 3,931 children were adopted from the foster care system, but 8,615 were still waiting. [1]


Choosing to adopt is a life-changing decision, and at
My Florida Adoptions, we are here to help you every step of the way. We understand that the adoption process can seem daunting, but with our experienced team by your side, you can navigate the journey with confidence and peace of mind.


Watch the Trailer and Get Involved

We encourage you to watch the official trailer for “The Last Teardrop” on YouTube and to learn more about this incredible film. You can find the trailer here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cAn9BbbjFC0.


If you are interested in learning more about adoption, we invite you to
contact us at My Florida Adoptions. Our team is available 24/7 to answer your questions and to provide you with the information you need to take the next step in your adoption journey. Whether you are a prospective adoptive parent or a birth parent considering adoption, we are here to help.


“The Last Teardrop” is more than just a movie; it’s a movement. It’s a call to action to support children in foster care, to celebrate the beauty of adoption, and to recognize the profound impact that a loving family can have on a child’s life. We are proud to be a part of this movement, and we hope that you will join us.


References

[1] CWLA. (2024). Florida 2024. Child Welfare League of America. Retrieved from https://www.cwla.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/04/Florida-2024.pdf


The Florida Foster Care System: A Closer Look

"The Last Teardrop" brings national attention to the foster care system, but it's essential to understand the specific situation here in Florida. The Sunshine State has a large and complex foster care system, with thousands of children at any given time in need of a safe, loving, and permanent home. While the ultimate goal of foster care is reunification with the biological family, this is not always possible. In such cases, adoption becomes the path to providing a child with a forever family.


The Need for Adoptive Families in Florida

The statistics surrounding foster care in Florida highlight the urgent need for more adoptive families. While the number of children in care can fluctuate, the reality is that many children, especially older children, sibling groups, and children with special needs, wait longer to be adopted. These children are at a higher risk of aging out of the foster care system without a permanent family, which can lead to a host of challenges in adulthood, including homelessness, unemployment, and involvement in the criminal justice system.


By choosing to adopt from foster care, you are not only providing a child with a home but also with a foundation for a brighter future. You are giving them the gift of stability, the security of a family, and the unconditional love that every child deserves.


The Role of Private Adoption Agencies

Navigating the adoption process can be complex, which is why many families choose to work with a private adoption agency like My Florida Adoptions. While it is possible to adopt directly from the state, a private agency can offer a more personalized and supportive experience. Here are some of the benefits of working with a private adoption agency:


  • Personalized Guidance: Private agencies typically have smaller caseloads, which allows them to provide more individualized attention to each family. At
    My Florida Adoptions, we take the time to get to know you and your family, so we can help you find the perfect match.
  • Comprehensive Support: From the initial home study to finalization and beyond, a private agency will be with you every step of the way. We offer a wide range of services, including counseling, training, and post-adoption support, to ensure that you have the resources you need to be successful.
  • Faster Placements: In some cases, private agencies can facilitate faster placements than the state. This is because they have a network of birth parents and adoptive families, which can help to streamline the matching process.
  • Financial Assistance: Many private agencies, including My Florida Adoptions, can help you explore financial assistance options, such as grants and loans, to make adoption more affordable.

Meet Tammy Holcombe: A Champion for Adoption

At the heart of My Florida Adoptions is our Executive Director, Tammy Holcombe. With over 30 years of experience in the field of adoption, Tammy is a true champion for children and families. Her passion for adoption is evident in everything she does, from her hands-on work with birth parents and adoptive families to her advocacy efforts on a larger scale.


Tammy's presence at the premiere of "The Last Teardrop" is a testament to her unwavering commitment to raising awareness about adoption. She understands that films like this can play a crucial role in inspiring more people to consider adoption and in breaking down the myths and misconceptions that still surround it.


Under Tammy's leadership,
My Florida Adoptions has become a trusted resource for families throughout the state. Her approachable and non-threatening demeanor makes her a comfort to those who are just beginning their adoption journey, while her expertise and professionalism ensure that every adoption is handled with the utmost care and attention to detail.





Frequently Asked Questions about Adoption in Florida

If you are considering adoption in Florida, you probably have a lot of questions. Here are some of the most frequently asked questions we receive at My Florida Adoptions:


1. What are the requirements to adopt in Florida?


In Florida, you can be single, married, or in a long-term relationship to adopt. There are no strict age requirements, but you must be able to provide a safe and stable home for a child. You will also need to complete a home study, which is a comprehensive assessment of your family and your home environment.


2. How long does the adoption process take?


The timeline for adoption can vary depending on a number of factors, including the type of adoption you are pursuing and the specific circumstances of your case. On average, the process can take anywhere from six months to two years.


3. How much does adoption cost?


The cost of adoption can also vary widely. Adopting from foster care is often less expensive than private adoption, as many of the costs are covered by the state. At
My Florida Adoptions, we are committed to making adoption as affordable as possible, and we can help you explore financial assistance options.


4. What is the difference between open and closed adoption?


In an open adoption, the birth parents and adoptive parents have ongoing contact, which can range from exchanging letters and photos to in-person visits. In a closed adoption, there is no contact between the birth parents and adoptive parents. At
My Florida Adoptions, we support all types of adoption and will work with you to create a plan that is in the best interests of everyone involved.


Take the Next Step

"The Last Teardrop" is a powerful reminder that every child deserves a family to call their own. If this film has inspired you to consider adoption, we encourage you to take the next step. Contact My Florida Adoptions today to learn more about our services and to begin your adoption journey. Together, we can make a difference in the life of a child.


The Emotional Journey of Adoption: A Path of Courage and Love

"The Last Teardrop" beautifully illustrates that the path to building a family through adoption is a profound emotional journey, not just for the child, but for the adoptive parents and birth parents as well. It is a journey marked by hope, anticipation, and, at times, uncertainty. At My Florida Adoptions, we walk alongside you on this path, offering guidance and support as you navigate the complex emotions that come with the adoption process.


For Adoptive Parents: A Journey of Hope and Preparation

For prospective adoptive parents, the journey often begins with a deep-seated desire to build a family. It is a journey of hope, of opening your heart and your home to a child in need. The process of becoming an adoptive parent is one of preparation, both practically and emotionally. The home study, for example, is more than just a series of interviews and paperwork; it is an opportunity for you to reflect on your own life, your values, and your dreams for your family.


As you move through the process, you may experience a rollercoaster of emotions, from excitement and anticipation to anxiety and frustration. This is all a normal part of the journey. At
My Florida Adoptions, we provide a safe and supportive space for you to process these emotions. Our team of experienced professionals is here to listen, to offer guidance, and to remind you that you are not alone.


For Birth Parents: A Journey of Courage and Selflessness

For birth parents, the decision to place a child for adoption is an act of incredible courage and selflessness. It is a decision made out of love, a desire to provide their child with the best possible life. The emotional journey for birth parents is often complex, filled with a mix of grief, loss, and hope for the future.


At
My Florida Adoptions, we provide compassionate and non-judgmental support to birth parents throughout their journey. We help them to explore their options, to create an adoption plan that they are comfortable with, and to navigate the emotional challenges of their decision. We also provide post-adoption support to help them heal and move forward with their lives.


Understanding the Different Types of Adoption

Adoption is not a one-size-fits-all process. There are many different types of adoption, each with its own unique set of benefits and challenges. At My Florida Adoptions, we have experience with all types of adoption and can help you determine which path is right for you.


Open Adoption

In an open adoption, the birth parents and adoptive parents have ongoing contact after the adoption is finalized. This contact can take many forms, from exchanging letters and photos to in-person visits. Open adoption can be a beautiful way for a child to maintain a connection to their birth family and to have a more complete understanding of their story.


Closed Adoption

In a closed adoption, there is no contact between the birth parents and the adoptive family. All identifying information is kept confidential. While closed adoptions were once the norm, they are less common today. However, they may still be the right choice for some families.


Semi-Open Adoption

A semi-open adoption is a middle ground between an open and closed adoption. In a semi-open adoption, communication between the birth parents and adoptive family is facilitated by the adoption agency. This can be a good option for families who want to maintain some level of contact but also want to protect their privacy.


Other Types of Adoption

In addition to open, closed, and semi-open adoption, there are several other types of adoption that we can assist with at My Florida Adoptions, including:


  • Stepparent Adoption: This is when a stepparent legally adopts their spouse's child.
  • Relative Adoption: This is when a relative, such as a grandparent or an aunt or uncle, adopts a child in their family.
  • Adult Adoption: This is when one adult adopts another adult, often to formalize a parent-child relationship that has existed for many years.


No matter what type of adoption you are considering, our team is here to provide you with the guidance and support you need to navigate the process with confidence.


The Healing Power of Music: A Universal Language

One of the most compelling aspects of "The Last Teardrop" is its exploration of the healing power of music. For Bobby Wilson, music was not just a career; it was a lifeline. Growing up in foster care, Bobby faced many challenges, but music provided him with an outlet for his emotions, a way to connect with others, and a sense of purpose. His tribute to Jackie Wilson was more than just a performance; it was a way for him to honor his father and to celebrate the legacy of soul music.


Music has long been recognized as a powerful tool for healing and self-expression. Studies have shown that music can reduce stress, improve mood, and even help people cope with trauma. For children in foster care, who often experience significant trauma and instability, music can be a particularly valuable resource. It can provide them with a sense of normalcy, a way to express their feelings, and a connection to their culture and heritage.


At
My Florida Adoptions, we recognize the importance of supporting the whole child, not just their physical needs. We encourage adoptive families to explore a variety of activities and interests with their children, including music, art, and sports. These activities can help children to develop their talents, to build their self-esteem, and to heal from past trauma.


The Impact of "The Last Teardrop": Raising Awareness and Inspiring Change

"The Last Teardrop" is more than just a documentary; it is a movement for change. The film's creators have outlined three key impact goals:


1. Awareness and Education: By screening the film in communities across the country, the filmmakers hope to increase awareness and educate the public about the challenges and complexities of the foster care and adoption systems in America. The film provides a unique opportunity for viewers to gain a deeper understanding of the experiences and perspectives of foster care youth and families.


2. Fundraising and Donations: Screenings of "The Last Teardrop" can also be used as fundraising opportunities for foster care organizations and charities. Ticket sales can generate revenue to support programs and services, and the event can be used as a platform to solicit donations.


3. Community Engagement and Support: Hosting a screening of "The Last Teardrop" can help foster care organizations and charities build stronger relationships with their communities. By inviting local stakeholders and members of the public to engage in conversations about foster care and adoption, organizations can foster greater understanding and support for their cause.


We at
My Florida Adoptions are proud to support the impact goals of "The Last Teardrop." We believe that films like this can play a crucial role in changing the narrative around foster care and adoption and in inspiring more people to get involved. Whether you choose to adopt, to become a foster parent, or to support adoption organizations in other ways, you can make a difference in the life of a child.


Resources for Adoptive Families and Birth Parents

At My Florida Adoptions, we are committed to providing comprehensive support to all members of the adoption triad: adoptive parents, birth parents, and adopted children. We offer a wide range of resources to help you navigate the adoption process and to support you after the adoption is finalized.


Resources for Adoptive Parents

  • Home Study Services: We provide comprehensive home study services to help you prepare for adoption. Our home studies are thorough, professional, and designed to meet the requirements of the state of Florida.
  • Adoption Training: We offer a variety of training programs to help you develop the skills and knowledge you need to be a successful adoptive parent. Topics include trauma-informed parenting, attachment, and cultural sensitivity.
  • Post-Adoption Support: Our support doesn't end when the adoption is finalized. We offer ongoing post-adoption support to help you navigate the challenges and joys of raising an adopted child. This includes counseling, support groups, and access to a network of other adoptive families.
  • Financial Assistance: We can help you explore financial assistance options, such as grants, loans, and tax credits, to make adoption more affordable.

Resources for Birth Parents

  • Counseling: We provide compassionate and non-judgmental counseling to help you explore your options and to make the best decision for yourself and your child.
  • Financial Assistance: We can help you with pregnancy-related expenses, such as medical care, housing, and transportation.
  • Legal Representation: We can connect you with an attorney who can represent your interests throughout the adoption process.
  • Post-Adoption Support: We offer ongoing post-adoption support to help you heal and move forward with your life. This includes counseling, support groups, and access to resources for birth parents.


You can learn more about our services by visiting our website at
www.myfladoptions.com or by calling us at (727) 233-3457.


How to Watch "The Last Teardrop"

"The Last Teardrop" is currently available for streaming on several platforms, making it easy for you to watch this powerful and inspiring film. You can find it on:


We highly recommend watching the official trailer first to get a sense of the film's powerful message. You can watch the trailer on YouTube here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cAn9BbbjFC0.


Join the Movement: How You Can Make a Difference

After watching "The Last Teardrop," you may be inspired to get involved in the foster care and adoption community. There are many ways you can make a difference, whether you are ready to adopt or simply want to support the cause.


Consider Adoption In Florida

If you have been thinking about adoption, now is the time to take the next step. Contact My Florida Adoptions today to learn more about our services and to begin your adoption journey. Our team is here to answer your questions, to provide you with the information you need, and to support you every step of the way.


Become a Foster Parent In Florida

If you are not ready to adopt but still want to make a difference, consider becoming a foster parent. Foster parents provide temporary care for children who are waiting to be reunited with their families or to be adopted. Fostering is a challenging but incredibly rewarding experience. You can learn more about becoming a foster parent in Florida by visiting AdoptUSKids.


Support Adoption Organizations In Florida

You can also support adoption organizations like My Florida Adoptions by making a donation, volunteering your time, or spreading the word about our work. Every little bit helps, and your support can make a real difference in the lives of children and families.


Advocate for Change In Florida

Finally, you can advocate for change by contacting your elected officials and urging them to support policies that benefit children in foster care. This includes policies that increase funding for foster care and adoption services, that improve the quality of care for children in the system, and that support families who are struggling.


Conclusion: A Story of Hope and Resilience

"The Last Teardrop" is a powerful and moving film that sheds light on the foster care and adoption systems in America. It is a story of hope, resilience, and the transformative power of family. Bobby Wilson's journey is a reminder that no matter what challenges we face in life, we have the strength to overcome them and to find our place in the world.


We at
My Florida Adoptions are honored to be a part of this important conversation. We are committed to supporting families throughout the adoption process and to providing children with the loving and permanent homes they deserve. If you are considering adoption, we encourage you to reach out to us today. Together, we can make a difference in the life of a child.


Thank you for taking the time to read this blog post. We hope that "The Last Teardrop" inspires you to learn more about adoption and to consider how you can get involved in this important cause. For more information about adoption services in Florida, please visit our
About Us page or explore our blog for more adoption stories and resources.



Contact My Florida Adoptions:


We are available 24/7 to answer your questions and to provide you with the support you need. Let us help you build your family through adoption.


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It may be a miscarriage or a still born. The list is endless. Grief is what we go through when we experience a loss or change. Birth mothers who place their baby for adoption also will experience grief. Let's look at the five stages of grief that Dr. Kubler- Ross introduced: Denial - Denial is the initial stage of grief that helps us cope with loss or change. It is a time of avoidance. We avoid the reality of the situation as it may be too overwhelming. It is actually helpful to experience denial as it gives you time to pace our grief. We could not handle the impact of loss all at once; therefore, denial allows us time to avoid it and deny the reality of it until we are ready to process it. The important thing is to be sure you do not get stuck in denial. The best way to process grief is to feel it and express it and tell your story. If you stay in denial and deny or avoid the feelings, you will not be able to process it. The pain will be stuffed inside and at some point it will come forward at a later time of life. Anger- Anger is a common emotion to have once you are out of denial and into reality. This is when one may say “It is not fair” or “Why me”. It is when one needs to blame someone else for their grief. It is important to feel the anger and express it or say it out loud. Eventually the anger will dissipate. For a birth mother, she may be angry at the birth father who left her in this position. She may be angry at her mother who insisted she place for adoption or who withdrew her support from her. She may be angry at the adoption agency that made it sound like rainbows and unicorns and didn’t forewarn her of this grieving process. She may be angry at the adoptive family who are holding and cuddling the baby that she should be holding and cuddling. She may be angry at herself for not being in a better place financially or emotionally. Depression- Depression and sadness is the most commonly accepted stage of grief. It is the emptiness we feel when we are living in reality and realize the person or situation we had is gone or over. It is a time where you may want to isolate and withdraw or stay in bed. This could be accompanied with hopelessness and/or suicidal thoughts. It is important not to get stuck in this stage. Accept therapy and support, even when you do not want to. I had a birth mother say to me once, I don’t want to talk to a therapist and move on, I want my baby back. She was feeling so hopeless. Within three days, she was doing so much better. It was still hard and painful, but she was not completely hopeless. She described it as I am now rational again. She was feeling normal grief. The hard thing for a birth mother is there is a normal grieving process after placing your baby for adoption and then there are hormonal changes going on in your body at the same time. It is like a double whammy. When a birth mother is feeling depression it causes her to question if she did the right thing and if she did, why does it hurt so bad. Bargaining- Bargaining is a stage where we are looking for a chance to stop the grief. You make yourself believe you can avoid the grief with a type of negotiation. Bargaining is many times accompanied by guilt. It is the attempt to get things back to the way it was prior to the loss or change. A birth mother may bargain with God and say, “God, if you will let me get my baby back, I will live right from here on out.” Or negotiating with the adoptive family. An example may be, I can’t do this unless I know I can visit her twice or three times a year. Acceptance- In this stage, one comes to terms with their new reality. The emotions begin to stabilize. You have good days and bad days. But you are moving and growing into your new reality and you have a sense that you will be okay. It is important to let people support you during your time of grief. Counseling and Birth Parent Support Groups are available to birth mothers. Grief is a process and everyone processes it differently. It is important to express your feelings and tell your story to help you process your grief. It is so interesting that when an employer gives you bereavement time off, it is usually three days paid time off. I think that the most intense time is the first three days. You are bouncing from stage to stage and feeling all kinds of emotions. It does not end there; however, you may start to get some breaks from the grief.. Then there will be something that triggers your grief like a movie or a smell and you will experience some of the emotions. But then you will get a break again until the next trigger. Grief is a process and a journey. There is no right or wrong way to grieve. We are all individuals and will grieve at our own pace and in our own way. Don’t judge yourself or let anyone judge you during this time. Be kind to yourself. Find a safe place to tell your story. Here at My Florida Adoptions, counseling is made available to you at any time during your adoption plan and your grieving process. Remember we have offices in Tampa, Port Richey, Orlando and Clearwater. It would be our pleasure to support you throughout your adoption plan.
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You have selected your agency, attorney or consultant of choice. You survived the Home Study process. You spent hours creating your Profile Book. You are officially “APPROVED to adopt”, so what now? The past few months have been leading up to this moment and you were feverishly filling out forms, scheduling interviews, doctor’s appointments, and pulling all of your creativity into an 8x11 book, and now you are told to simply, “wait.” Excuse me? You have been in fact “waiting” to add a child to your family for what seems like forever already and “now” is when the waiting starts? The true and dreadful answer to that question is “Yes.” However, this time of waiting does not have to be filled with anxiety or checking each day off of that calendar in your kitchen. Here are my “Social Worker Approved” tips for surviving the wait! 1. Realistically prepare for your new addition. DO NOT, and I repeat DO NOT buy clothes, diapers, bottles, specific toys, etc. as that can make the wait seem even more excruciating. Instead, start clearing out that extra bedroom, pick out a gender-neutral wall color (unless you are adopting a child of a specific gender) and paint the walls, pick out a crib or bed. Start looking on Pinterest for different decorating ideas for when the time comes. These are simple ways to prepare, while not adding to your anxiety of waiting. A fallacy of adopting a child is that the baby or child’s room has to be completely done. I always suggest to families to wait and decorate the room once the baby or child is in your home. You will be able to make the room specific to your baby or child, which makes the process much more fun! 2. Work on household projects. Take this time to update that bathroom you felt you never had time for before. Start that garden in your backyard, knock down that wall, or clean out that garage. This is the perfect time to keep busy, while feeling accomplished with projects here and there. 3. Start an adoption journal. Write about this amazing process you have begun. Share your feelings about your hopes, desires, and dreams for your future child. Share your fears about the unexpected and the struggle of waiting. This can be very therapeutic and great to read through again years later, even with your child one day. 4. Start a blog or vlog…if you are into that sort of thing. This can be a great outlet and way for your family and friends to support you throughout your adoption journey. 5. Continue your adoption education. Read books, blogs, etc. about discussing adoption with your child, adoption resources for families, books for children on adoption, and so on. No one will ever know everything there is to know about adoption, so continue your education as you prepare! 6. “Date” your spouse (if applicable). No matter how long you have been waiting and preparing to add a child to your family, your lives are about to change…even if you have children already! Use this time to strengthen your relationship as a couple. Go on dates, a weekend getaway or that cruise you have always wanted to go on. Have no money left after your adoption savings…have a date night in and binge watch some Netflix. If you are adopting as a single parent, then use this time to take that one trip, visit with out of state friends or family, etc. Take time for what is important as you wait! The wait is just another part of your journey to adopt a child. You will look back on this wait one day and think it was completely worth it…trust me, you will! Do you have any tips for families “surviving the wait?” If so, we would love to hear them!
By Tammy Holcombe August 14, 2020
We are excited to share that My Florida Adoptions has opened two new offices-Tampa and Orlando-to better serve our clients! Our main office is in Clearwater. Let us know how we can serve you in these areas and all other parts of Florida as well. We are happy to travel to you, no matter where you are. If you are an expectant mother wanting to make an adoption plan or wanting to discuss your options, we are happy to meet with you at any time. If you a pre-adoptive family who needs a home study to start your adoption journey or if you would like to discuss the adoption process, feel free to reach out to us. We are here to serve you. Sincerely, Tammy, Leah, Susan and Tina